Suzanna

It seems to me that one of the most difficult things in relationships between people is the ability to control the degree of openness to another person.After all, I look at people not only through the lens. And what do I see? Some closed themselves tightly and for a long time, because they were once betrayed. And from this closeness, other, good people then suffer, because they fail to see how wonderful a person is inside.Others shine brightly and furiously, illuminate and warm everyone around. And sometimes these are those who have not yet experienced the pain of betrayal. And when I understand that this is exactly the case, I want to somehow protect them. But this lesson can hardly be taught. Only learnt.And only after going through this all a huge number of times, you begin to develop a more or less correct protection system and control how open or closed the door to your soul is for different people.But if you have learned and met a person who is worth opening yourself to, throw this door wide open! Shine even brighter than then! Bright like diamond! Even more frantic! And let the second person shine the same! Remember? Even science claims that the entire universe was born as a result of the collision of opposites.You can do this too.